After the new feeling is gone

Sometimes i feel like i'm stuck in this cycle of heartbreak. Every time i meet someone terrific that i enter a relationship with, everything seems wonderful, for a while. Everything seems to be perfect, you both know what the other person is thinking at times, or you both say the same things at the same time, you know how it is. You would do anything for them, whether it's getting something down from a high shelf in the closet, or going down to the store to buy that shirt they really want. You just want to see their face light up because it makes you feel great. And they do the same things for you. But after a while, you don't see eye to eye on certain things, at first it's small things like the color of the curtains, or how they leave things out instead of picking up after theirself. Then it turns into being upset because they forgot something, or because they lost the remote right before your favorite show, stupid things. Where do we go wrong? We argue and hurt each others feelings, not because we want to, but because we are lashing out, why?

That great feeling that nothing can take away does exactly that, it begins to fade away. You feel bad about hurting your loved one, but then after you make up, somehow, you always end up getting back into a fight later over something silly. And the worst thing is, that most of the time, you can't even remember what started the fight! This is a much more common ailment of today's relationships than what most people realize. And, surprisingly, one of the most easy to fix, if we can just learn the secret.