Could things be the same again?

As a result of my negative experiences with holding together relationships, i began looking for help on the subject, and found some good information on it. It's helped me immensely, and i wish we all could go in to our experiences with the ones we come to love with a better strategy for a happy ending. If that were so, then there wouldn't be people like me, or the countless others who have experienced loss, and lack the all elusive knowledge of how to keep it from happening. If it's any solace for my ranting, i've included a helpful link to the information that helped me. Hopefully someone gets some benefit from it - here.